Anonymous said: I'm feeling bad right now. It's like nobody encourage me or rather my hair.. Neither my mom, I feel bad. It's dry dry dry DRY D R Y. It's short short SHORT.. I want to have protective style with my hair but I dont know how to braid or twist properly .. So I'm dependant of my friend, mum or even cousin .. but they always criticize it.. I'M LOST.
That sucks so much. I feel you.
Girl, you need to take control of this situation.
Your hair is fab, you just cant see it yet.
I am here for you.
You have youtube, websites.. everything on natural hair that can help you.
Dont depend on anyone to love yourself. Depend on you. Its a struggle but for your own happiness, you gotta do it.
Before I went natural, I was on Google, websites, YouTube, even Tumblr just searching everything I needed to know.
I learnt to braid or any style by paying attention to stylists at the salon and did my own personal research and practice.
Thats what you need to do. RESEARCH. PRACTICE TILL YOU GET IT. Its the only way.
Ask your mum, cousin, anyone to teach you these things.
BLOCK THESE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS, IT WILL BREAK YOU.
LOOK YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR AND TELL YOURSELF “MY HAIR IS GOOG. MY HAIR IS ME. MY HAIR IS LOVE. I LOVE ME. I AM BEAUTIFUL” Say it till you believe it.
I did that when I cut my hair and my confidence went from 100 to everything. Noone can tell me otherwise. I dont believe anything negative. Beauty is in the eye of the beauty and girl, I see you. You are beautiful.
I am here to encourage you - YOU ARE BEAUTY. YOUR HAIR IS BEAUTY!
Your hair is dry because it lacks moisture. Simply wetting your hair with hot/warm water then cold water then adding your oil can improve your hair.
Hair is never short. you have to learn to work with what you got and remember its hair , IT WILL GROW.
I dont want you having this negative vibes about yourself and your hair.
LOVE YOUR HAIR. It has so much to show you.
Email me @ email@example.com .. we can talk more, if you want.
YOU ARE FOUND!
Hope this helps.
Have a fab day.